Monday, October 31, 2011
October 31
* finish each day and be done with it. you have done what you could. some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can. tomorrow is a new day. you shall begin it serenely and with too high a sprit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. - Emerson
* When a girl tells you about her problems, it does not mean she is complaining, it means she trusts you.
* Never make a permanent decision based on temporary feelings.
* Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. - J.K. Rowling
* Expectation is the root of all heartache. - William Shakespeare
* Devote yourself to an idea. Go make it happen. Struggle on it. Overcome your fears. Smile. Don't you forget: This is your dream.
* A true friend is the only person who never gets tired of listening to your own pointless dramas over and over again.
* Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.
* I am selfish, impatient, and little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. - Marilyn Monroe.
* If he loved you with all the power of his soul for a whole lifetime, he couldn't love you as much as I do in a single day. - Heathcliff, Wuthering Heights.
* The laughter of a child, is the light of a home.
* You will know that forgiveness has begun when you can recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.
* Sometimes you need to step outside, get some air, and remind yourself who you are and who you want to be.
* So it's not going to be easy. It's going to be really hard. And we're going to have to work at this every day. But I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, every day. - The Notebook
* The three things a guy should want to change about his girl is her last name, address, and her viewpoint on men. - Kid Cudi
* Don't marry a man unless you would be proud to have a son exactly like him.
* Anyone can be passionate. But it takes real lovers to be silly. - Rose Franken
* Don't be the girl who needs a man, be the girl a man needs.
* The hardest thing in life is to know which bridge to cross and which to burn.
* To couples: You're not going to promise to each other that you are not going to disappoint one another, because at some point you will. What is important is that you don't go away, you don't escape, you don't leave one another just because you were disappointed. That's the meaning of fidelity.
* You don't have a soul. You are a soul. You have a body. - C.S. Lewis
* It's supposed to be hard. If it wasn't hard, everyone would do it. The hard is what makes it great. - A League of Their Own.
* When I was 5 years old, my mom always told me that happiness is the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down "happy". They told me I didn't understand the assignment, and I told them they didn't understand life. - John Lennon
* We need to teach our daughters the difference between a man who flatters her and a man that compliments her. A man who spends money on her, and a man who invests in her. A man who views her as property, and a man who views her properly. A man who lusts after her, and a man who loves her. A man who believe he is God's gift to women, and a man who remembers a woman was God's gift to man. And then teach our sons to be that kind of man.
* Find life experiences and swallow them whole. Travel. Meet many people. Go down some dark alleys. Try everything. Exhaust yourself in the glorious pursuit of life.
* Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise.
* Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones that you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor. Catch the tradewinds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. - Mark Twain
* The two most important days of your life are the day you were born, and the day you find out why. - Mark Twain
* From the moment they placed you in my arms, you snuggled right into my heart.
* I will hold myself to a standard of grace, not perfection.
* "Four years ago, I was just a guy who had a crush on a girl, who had a boyfriend. And I had to do the hardest thing I've ever had to do, which was just to ... wait... And, a lot of people told me I was crazy to wait this long for a date with a girl I work with but I think even then I knew that ... I was waiting for my wife." - Jim Halpert
* I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it's the thing I like most, to laugh. It cures a multitude of ills. It is probably the most important thing in a person. - Audrey Hepburn
* Hey you. Yes, you. Stop being unhappy with yourself, you are perfect. stop wishing you looked like someone else or wishing people liked you as much as they liked someone else. stop trying to get attention from those who hurt you, stop hating your body, your face, your personality, your quirks. Love them. Without those things, you wouldn't be you, and why would you want to be anyone else? be confident with who you are. Smile. It'll draw people in . If anyone hates on you because you are happy with yourself then you stick your middle finger in the air and say screw it. my happiness will not depend on others anymore. I'm happy because I love who I am. I love my flaws. I love my imperfections. They make me me. And 'me' is pretty amazing.
Thursday, October 27, 2011
October 27th
* If someone wants to be a part of your life, they'll be there. So don't bother saving a spot for someone who won't make an effort to stay.
* Sometimes we need to stop analyzing the past, stop planning the future, stop figuring out percisely how we feel, stop deciding exactly what we want, and just see what happens. - Sex in the City.
* Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike. - Albus Dumbledore
* For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others. For beautiful lips, speak only words on kindness. And for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone. - Audrey Hepburn
* People cry not because they are too weak, It's because they've been strong for too long.
* Wouldn't life be perfect if sweatpants were sexy, Monday's were fun, junk food didn't make you fat, girls didn't cause so much drama, guys weren't so confusing, and goodbye's were only until tomorrow.
* Let go of the things you are not supposed to hold on to, they might have given you happiness before but maybe this time they will be able to make someone else happier. - Toy Story 3
* Be pretty if you can, be witty if you must, but be gracious if it kills you. - Elise De Wolfe
* You know my name, not my story. You've heard what I've done, not what I've been through.
* I wanna marry you because you are the first person I wanna look at when I wake up in the morning, and the only one I wanna kiss goodnight. Because the first time I saw these hands, I couldn't imagine not being able to hold them. But mainly, when you love someone as much as I love you, getting married is the only thing left to do. So will you, um, marry me? - Will Hayes, Definately Maybe.
* Be so happy that when others look at you they become happy too.
* Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day.
* Find a heart that will love you at your worst, and arms that will hold you at your weakest.
* People tend to think that happiness is a stroke of luck, something that will descend like fine weather if you're fortunate. But happiness is the result of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly. - Elizabeth Gilbert, "Eat, Pray, Love"
* When I'm older, and my little girl asks me who my first love was, I don't want want to have to pull out the old photo album... I want to be able to point across the room and say, "He's sitting right over there."
* Because we whispered, its always been you. It was you before we ever met, it's you when I can't sleep, it's you when I want to spit fire, it's you when I lose myself, and it's you when I find me again. That raw, areen space in me... it has always been you.
* Never let your kids walk away without a kiss.
* A man who treats a woman like a princess is proof that he has been raised by a queen.
* "The less you reveal, the more people can wonder." - Emma Watson.
* "I love food and I hate exercise. I don't have time to work out... I don't want to be on the cover of Playboy or Vogue. I wanna be on the cover of Rolling Stones or Q. I'm not a trend-setter.. I am a singer... I'd rather weigh a ton and make an amazing album, then look like Nicole Ritchie and do a shit album. My goal in life is never to be skinny." - Adele.
*At any given moment, you have the power to say, this is not how the story is going to END.
* Unless its mad passionate extraordinary love it's a waste of time. There are too many mediocre things in this life. Love should not be one of them.
* The more you know who you are and what you want, the less you let things upset you.
* You have never really lived until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.
* The cure for anything is salt water- sweat, tears, or the sea.
* You are never too old to set a new goal, or dream a new dream. - C.S. Lewis
* I've made mistakes in my life. I've let people take advantage of me, and I accepted way less than I deserve. But, I have learned from my bad choices, and even though there are some things I can never get back, and people who will never be sorry, I'll know better next time, and I won't settle for anything less than I deserve.
Monday, October 24, 2011
October 24, 2011
*We must all make the choice between what is right, and what is easy. - Professor Dumbledore
*Fact: The wedding ring goes on the left ring finger because it is the only finger with a vein that connects to the heart
* As you grow up you will have your heart broken more than once and its harder everytime. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend, you'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt. Because every sixty seconds you spend upset, is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.
*Do what you feel in your heart to be right, you'll be criticized anyway. - Eleanor Roosevelt
*Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too. - Will Smith
** The most beautiful people we know are those who have known defeat, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen. - Elizabeth Kubler Ros
* Marriage: If you want something to last forever you treat it differently. You shield it and protect it. you never abuse it. You don't expose it to the elements. You don't make it common or ordinary. If it ever becomes tarnished, you lovingly polish it until it gleams like new. It becomes special because you have made it so, and it grows more and more beautiful as time goes by.
*Don't confuse your path with your destination. Just because it's stormy now, doesn't mean you aren't headed for sunshine.
* Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking, and don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. - Steve Jobs
* Never be afraid to try something new. Remember amateurs built the ark, Professionals built the Titanic.
* Take chances. Tell the truth. Date someone totally wrong for you. Say no. Spend all your cash. Get to know someone random. Be random. Say I love you. Sing out loud. Laugh at stupid jokes. Cry. Apologize. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Tell a jerk what you think. Laugh til your stomach hurts. Live life. Regret nothing.
* We are all a little weird and life's a little weird. and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love. - Dr. Seuss
* I wish to never be parted from you from this day on. -Mr. Darcy
* Treat your girl like you would want your dad to treat your mom, and how you would want your future son in law to treat your daughter.
* Sometimes the right path, is not always the easier one. - Grandmother Willow, Pocahontas
* Hold hands every chance you get. Be the best you can be. Marry your best friend. Listen. Hug often. care more, love deeply, treasure always. Be the first to say I'm sorry. Kiss good morning, kiss and make up, kiss just because, kiss goodnight. Always be willing to compromise. Respect one another. Be a team player. Remember why you fell in love. Make a promise to each other to find time to be alone together. Don't forget to laugh. Love Each Other.
* It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all - in which case, you fail by default. - J.K. Rowling
* The greatest thing a father can do for his daughter is to love her mother. - Elaine S. Dalton
* I love you means that I have accepted you for the person that you are, and that I do not wish to change you into someone else. It means that I do not expect perfection from you - just as you do not expect it from me. It means that I will love you and stand by you even through the worst of times. It means loving you when you're in a bad mood, or too tired to do the things I want to do. It means loving you when you're down- not just when you are fun to be with. I love you means that I know your deepest secrets and do not judge you for them- asking in return only that you do not judge me for mine. It means that I care enough to fight for what we have and that I love enough not to let go. It means thinking of you, dreaming of you, wanting you and needing you constantly, and hoping that you feel the same way for me.
* Find someone who will never get tired of kissing you everyday. Who'll hug you when youre jealous. Who will understandingly keep silent when you are mad. Who'll squeeze your hand when youre not in the mood. Who'll plan and imagine the future with you in it. And when you find someone, never let them go.
* And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you, because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don't believe in magic, will never find it. - Roald Dahl
* If I ever push you away, I don't really mean to. When I tell you I don't want to talk about it, i do, i'm just looking for the right words. give me a minute, and if i can tell you, i will. I try to be a struggling mix of real and perfect at the same time. At the moment, I am working on the ratio. When I get really quiet sometimes, its becasue I have too much to say. I have thought of too many things to tell you all at once, and I don't know what to say first. I get immaturely jealous of anyone who gets to see you on a daily basis. I miss you really easily, but I also like that we can be apart, and we are both ok. Space is good, too. I love the way we love some of the same things, and I love how we love entirely different things. My head is a complicated pile of thoughts, and fears, and cravings, and nostalgia for the past, and somehow, for the future. I am flawed, and i am human, and i am broken, and i am trying. and i am one person, and i am two hands, and i am one heart. and i love you. I'm so glad youre here.
* Things that matter most, must never be at the mercy of things that matter least.
* This is your LIFE. Do what you love, and do it often. If you don't like something, change it. If you don't like your job, quit. If you don't have enough time, stop watching TV. If you are looking for the love of your life, stop; they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love. Stop over analyzing. All emotions are beautiful. When you eat, appreciate every last bite. Life is simple. Open your mind, arms and heart to new things and people, we are united in our differences. Ask the next person you see what their passion is, and share your inspiring dream with them. Travel often. Getting lost will help you find yourself. Some opportunities only come once, Seize them. Life is about the people you meet, and the things you create with them. So go out and start creating. Life is short. Live your dream, and wear your passion.
* Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark in the hopeless swaps of the not-quite, the not-yet, and the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish in lonely frustration for the life you deserved and have never been able to reach. The world you desire, can be won. It exists.. it is real... it is possible... it's yours. -Ayn Rand
* Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you have decided to look beyond the imperfections.
* You only have one life, do whatever you want. Within 100 years nobody will remember the stupid mistakes you made. So make a fool of yourself while you still have the chance. Because if you spend all your life trying to be the coolest kid around, You will never be happy with yourself.
* Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you'll look back and realize that those were the big things.
* There is no passion to be found in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living. - Nelson Mandela
* Your journey has molded you for your greater good, and it was exactly what it needed to be. Don't think that you've lost time, it took each and every situation you have encountered, to bring you to the now. and now is right on time. -Asha Tyson
* Only an open heart allows you to float freely across the Universe.
* Respect people that find time for you in their busy schedule. But love people who never look at their schedule when you need them.
* Just because you don't see results after a day or even a week, don't give up, you may not see changes, but every smart choice you make is affecting you in ways you'd never imagine.
* Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Look at the sunny side of everything & make your optimism come true. Think only of the best, work only for the best, and expect only the best. Forget the mistakes of the past, and press on to the greater achievements of the future. Give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. Live in the faith that the whole world is on your side as long as you are true to the best that is in you. - Christian D. Larson
* He is not perfect. You aren't either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human, and making mistakes , hold on to him and give him the most you can. He isn't going to quote poetry, he is not thinking of you every moment, but he will give you a part of him he knows you can break. Don't hurt him, don't change him, and don't expect more than he can give. Don't analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he's not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don't exist, but there is always one guy that is perfect for you. - Bob Marley.
* You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, "I have lived through this horror, I can take the next thing that comes along." You must do the thing you think you cannot do. - Eleanor Roosevelt